1. Become incredibly selfish Without you, there is nothing, and attraction isn't possible. 2. Unhook yourself from the future Attraction works in the present, not in the future. 3. Overrespond to every event By over-responding instead of overreacting, you evolve, which is very attractive. 4. Build a super-reserve in every area Having enough is not nearly enough for you to be irresistibly attractive. 5. Add value just for the joy of it When you add value because you enjoy it, people are naturally attracted to you. 6. Affect others profoundly The more you touch others, the more attractive you'll become. 7. Market your talents shamelessly If you're embarrassed about what you do well, you won't be very attractive. 8. Become irresistibly attractive to yourself How can you attract others if you don't feel irresistibly attractive to you? 9. Get a fulfilling life, not just an impressive lifestyle A great life is attractive; a lifestyle is usually s...